My son is getting to married in three weeks without the approval nor attendance of my wife nor I. We don’t approve of the Shidduch however we at no time told them that we wouldn’t attend. He sprung this on us on Sunday. My wife and I are crushed that he would do this to us. The girl is shlepping him off the Derech and isn’t frum. They fight like cats and dogs and I believe that there will be violence in the near future. What do we do?

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